2015

Here we are 4 months after getting our son home and he is doing absolutely fantastic!!!! learning so fast and just being a sweet crazy active 2 year old little boy.  Then on top of that January of this year I had another boy.  So house fun this year with a 2 yr old and 4 month old.  Lifes good!!!!

To anyone thinking of adopting it is crazy and you get so frustrated and mad and aggravated through the process because it is soooo slow and ridiculous sometimes but eventually you get through it all and you get your family and you just couldnt be happier.

Hope best wishes to those who made read this and be adopting.  I chronicled some of our journey, but did a bad job missing out on some times.  Maybe itll help someone one day.....

Until then

Lots of love from a happy mom of 2!!!

finally done!

OK, so a lot has gone on since last post. But last thing on my mind was blogging.
We flew to Poland nov 19 then I had to leave beginning of Dec because I was getting so far along in pregnancy so my mom came over and stayed the rest of the trip with my husband. They finally got to come home Dec 26th. So total 2nd trip was over a month.
But everyone's finally home!

Things we learned:
-You gotta go with the flow.
-Poland is gloomy, cold, and the air quality is poor most of the winter when we were there.  Hardly any sun.
-Time creeps by when your family is spilt up.
-The orphanage does as best they can but I am glad to be letting my son eat some good wholesome foods.
-You have to have lots and lots of patience for Poland, your child, and the overall process or you'll go stark raving mad.
-Not as many people as you think speak English even though in research they supposedly do.
- We didn't learn enough polish before we went and many times needed it.
-You really can't travel much with a new child, as they are unpredictable and you can be caught far away with tantrums and can be hard to get back to apartment.
-Your child us really learning the world for the first time and you have to go with it and help them learn.
-We are thankful for our son but completely glad for the ridiculously long process to be done.

Got travel dates! tentative, but almost certain.

Ok, so we got the paperwork from Poland, filled it out and sent it in the next day.  Waited and totally stressed because I am 30 weeks pregnant and we are trying to get over there  and me be able to get back before I give birth.  LOL.  So, we think we have it worked out to get over there, me get back and my husband have to stay through the  waiting period after the court date for our son.

Definitely crying and emotional and in shock its finally here and stressed to make sure I get everything done that I can so the trip is as best as possible.


WOOOOTWOOOOT.

Started application JAN 2013
Dossier in to Poland SEPT 2013
Referral for our son APRIL 2014
Traveled to Poland MAY 2014
Paperwork from Poland SEPT 2014
Travel back 2nd trip NOV 2014
Hope to have our son home DEC 2014!!!!

Almost 2 years from start to finish.  Tons of paperwork, emotions, and craziness almost coming to an end and we almost have our family!

finally getting paperwork from poland

well, we have waited since May for paperwork and its gonna be here tomorrow. finally.  lets hope we can get it turned in and get it back asap so we can be one step closer to bringing our son home!

still waiting on paperwork in between trips.

OK, its been a while since I've posted. We saw our son in May and so it has been 4 months since we returned. We really were hoping for paperwork from Poland a while ago, but it seems to be really slow right now in between trips.
But, we got an update we might have our paperwork in next weeks and possible travel in October or November depending. So it was a good update. I just really want my baby boy! Fingers crossed it works out n we have him.home for Christmas!

in hiatus

I turned 33 yesterday. I realized it has been a while since I wrote and updated. What better time than when I'm a year wiser :). So here goes..

When we traveled back from Poland I had a rough time adjusting to the time change with no sleep, airplane food and who knows what else so I got sick, yep, airplane bathrooms are really quite lovely (jk).  Well, after calling out of work an extra day or two and thinking I had some virus or bug we took a test. We meaning I and test meaning Yup, we found out we were pregnant!  Can you believe it? After years of trying and then finding our beautiful son in Poland we find out God has blessed us with a second child.   We ate so lucky to be where we are!

OK, onto the next subject...
My inlaws moved in with us. Not sure if I've blogged about this already, but they are awesome! We built out our garage and they have been wonderful and are so excited for everything and can't wait to meet their grandson from Poland!
So we have started updating our home study for all the changes we have going on. Doing more paperwork, of course.

We are waiting on Poland to send us the paperwork after our first trip for us to start getting everything dine to go back and pick up our son. Only thing is now we are a lite worried about timelines since I am pregnant now and at a certain point won't be able to travel so fingers crossed we get to go before things get complicated.  I know God has a plan but it still is hard to not worry.

seeing our son. 1st trip

We arrived in Katowice, got picked up n driven to see our hotel. Met Magda the next morning and she finds out our son is doing respitory therapy 3 hours away! So we didn't get to see him that day. The next day when then got picked up again and dru end 3 hours to where he is. Finally we get to see him. He's so tiny n perfect n beautiful. We played for hours. Then next day (today) we came back. Yesterday there were nurses who spoke English.. Today nope. Lol. But there is a lady stating here who speaks polish and Spanish of all things so she is a godsend helping us ho from my husband seeking Spanish n translating to polish.